Yes, humans make choices, but who you are attracted to is NOT one of them. As a heterosexeual male, I have never been attracted to a man. I hate that religious fanatics honestly believe that gay people CHOOSE to be gay. It just doesn't make sense.
Completely agree with you John. Straight men can't be made gay and visa versa. Although humans do make choices sexual orientation is not one of them.
Its not who you copulate with that matters its who you can play with and laugh with and drink a cuppa tea with and talk with and let them into your inner most being -be it male or female - homo or hetero - so much pain is caused by people marrying because they want to couple and keep coupling - sex is the very last reason why two people should marry - be with who you can be yourself with - whether you have sex or not - love is what its about NOT lust. Because the church says NO loudly to sex out side of marriage - millions of people live in misery and sadness. Yes of course many marriages work but these days many more don't bacause of wrong foundations.