I had a lumpectomy with chemo and radiation 16 years ago and was never offered or spoken to about reconstruction. All these years later I am now very 'lopsided' and have a hard time with clothes fitting properly even though I have a prosthesis. I cannot afford reconstruction on my own now and at 63 years old I guess I will live with this the rest of my life. Even at this age I would love to have normal breasts that are the same size.