The increase in births to unwed mothers, divorces and couples who cohabitate before marriage has caused a strain on American families, especially children. As part of the National Healthy Marriage Initiative, a University of Missouri program is addressing this issue by teaching parents to build healthy relationships for themselves and their children.
Connecting For Baby (CFB) is a program for low-income, unmarried couples who are new parents or soon-to-be parents. The program, developed by researchers in the Human Development and Family Studies Department (HDFS) in the MU College of Human Environmental Sciences, takes a prevention approach by targeting young couples, ages 18-27.
"The couples in the program want their children to experience things they didn't - the stability of having two, supportive and caring parents who love each other," said Larry Ganong, co-chair of HDFS and professor in the MU Sinclair School of Nursing. "The program is designed to help couples who want to learn the basic resources and relationship skills needed to build and maintain healthy families."
The lessons included in the program are based on years of research about positive relationships and the benefits of healthy families, which include longer life expectancy and improved mental health. The program encourages couples to work together and stay together. Studies reveal that children who are raised by married parents have better physical health, emotional and financial health, according to the Department of Health and Human Services.
"Our goal is to help couples develop skills to form healthy relationships," said Marnie Morgan, CFB project manager and MU Extension associate. "We cover a variety of issues including finances, discipline and reducing stress. The sessions provide opportunities for couples to discuss relationships and parenting with other couples, to whom they can relate, while receiving sound information from trained facilitators."
Couples who qualify for the program: