Boston Medical Group, a national physician network specializing in the
treatment of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, today
released ten of the top myths surrounding sex. From which gender spends
the most time fantasizing to whether size really matters, the list
covers some of the common misconceptions about time spent between the
sheets.
“Being knowledgeable and understanding the
real facts is not only important because sex is such a vital part of our
physical health and well-being – it actually increases the likelihood
that your sex life will become more fulfilling and pleasurable.”
“There are a lot of people out there that are misinformed about a number
of aspects related to sex, from physical pleasure and chemistry right up
to the facts about procreation,” said Dr. Barry Buffman, a physician
with Boston Medical Group. “Being knowledgeable and understanding the
real facts is not only important because sex is such a vital part of our
physical health and well-being – it actually increases the likelihood
that your sex life will become more fulfilling and pleasurable.”
Just in time for Valentine’s Day, the top sex myths include:
1. Great sex comes naturally
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The physical chemistry you see on TV and in the movies suggests that
when two lovers meet, sparks fly and mind-blowing sex naturally
follows. But in the real world, it’s not always that easy.
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The human body doesn’t come with an instruction manual. The “tricks of
the trade” that pleased a former partner do not always translate with
someone new. Good communication is key to good sex, as is a
willingness to be open to trying new techniques and positions to find
out what both partners find pleasurable.
2. Men have more sexual urges than women
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Though many men would have you believe they’re ready to go 24 hours a
day, 7 days a week, the truth is that men experience daily
fluctuations in libido, as do women.
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A man’s readiness to hop in the sack can be impacted by many of the
same factors that impact a woman’s level of desire, including diet,
sleep health, stress, medical conditions, self-confidence and
relationship disharmony.
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In addition, women have additional factors affecting their libido,
including their menstrual cycle and/or birth control pills. Many women
are also more affected than men by emotional and environmental
factors, including cultural stigmas that keep them from being vocal
and assertive about their desires.
3. After a certain age, sex is no longer important
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Sex is an important aspect of physical and emotional health and
well-being for adults of all ages, even those in their golden years.
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While some people believe that a decrease in libido is a natural part
of aging, a loss of sexual desire can be related to a number of other
factors including hormone deficiencies, depression, anxiety disorders,
side effects of medication, changes to a relationship, communication
barriers or loss of a spouse or partner.
4. The little blue pill
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While many people believe Viagra and other similar oral medications
are the best or only treatment for men with erectile dysfunction, the
truth is that for many men, these drugs are not a viable option or
they simply are not effective.
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Oral medications are only a temporary fix to a problem that may have
other underlying health causes that should be addressed by a qualified
physician. In addition, many men with health conditions including
hypertension and diabetes cannot take oral prescriptions due to
serious potential side effects or contraindications with other
medications. For men who cannot use oral meds, there are a number of
other options, including urethral suppositories and ICP, an injection
that produces an erection within minutes.
5. Size matters
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Even if every man could probably tell you exactly how long his penis
is, surveys have revealed that girth, not length, may be the greater
factor in female pleasure.
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Studies have shown that over 75% of women reach orgasm through oral
sex as opposed to only 25% though intercourse alone. Contact against
the clitoris and vaginal tissues leads to orgasm, which is not always
achieved strictly through penetration.
6. Women can’t get pregnant if a man withdraws before ejaculating